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Suze's avatar

This is one of my favorite pieces of yours since I subscribed!! I totally agree with everything you said here. The early-stage overwhelm/societal support combo is huge. My husband and I are planning to have a baby in the next few years and the only thing keeping us from doing it now is we don’t have enough money saved (we’re in the US). We have a couple friends in the Netherlands and Germany and the healthcare, parental leave, and childcare policies are enough to make us consider moving (and the current state of affairs in the US only adds to it)…if only our families and other friends wouldn’t be so far away, I really think we’d go. We need better financial and societal support for parents!!!

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Rebel Siren's avatar

Let's stop demonizing people who speak the truth about parenting, it is hard! The U.S. doesn't support parents. Women take the brunt of it. It's hard, why are we sugar coating it?

My mom wanted to make sure I knew how hard it was so I could make an informed decision. Her own mother said she shielded her from the realities of parenting because, she feared, if my mom knew the truth, she wouldn't do it. That's wrong.

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