Do you recommend setting a deadline and making a decision by that time? Any tips on how not to rush and pressure yourself to decide prematurely but recognize when you’re not going to get any more clarity and it’s time to decide with what you already know/feel/think?
I think deadlines have pros and cons! Sometimes deadlines can really make our ambivalence even more intense bc we feel so much pressure! You could try a loose deadline— like I want to figure this out in the next year and see how you react to it! I think try to balance between researching, looking at active tips/ exercises and also just really connecting with yourself and giving yourself time to pause and reflect on what matters to you.
Do you recommend setting a deadline and making a decision by that time? Any tips on how not to rush and pressure yourself to decide prematurely but recognize when you’re not going to get any more clarity and it’s time to decide with what you already know/feel/think?
I think deadlines have pros and cons! Sometimes deadlines can really make our ambivalence even more intense bc we feel so much pressure! You could try a loose deadline— like I want to figure this out in the next year and see how you react to it! I think try to balance between researching, looking at active tips/ exercises and also just really connecting with yourself and giving yourself time to pause and reflect on what matters to you.